This post was originally published in ASN Lifestyle Magazine
I’ve written many articles before about cuckolding including the love and connection that comes from cuckolding relationships, the art of the tease, the importance of her confidence, the massive appeal of cuckolding, and the sexually empowered woman who wants it all. But today I’m going to dive into something a little more fun and sexy - my ultimate cuckolding fantasies.
Despite what you may have heard elsewhere, cucks are not weak pathetic doormats. They are loving devoted partners who give the gift of sexual exploration to their partner and in return she involves him in some way - it’s very much a two way street. And with the usual cuck porn script being where the cuck is on all fours with a collar and leash on and being insulted and degraded by the woman posing as his wife, you’d probably assume that my cuck fantasies would mirror something like that. However, that's not the case. I, like many other women, approach cuckolding fantasies from a place of love, playful teasing, and immense sexual energy shared between both of us.
Most of my fantasies revolve around incorporating cuckolding into important or significant events. The first cuckolding fantasy I remember having involves a first date. I imagined making plans for a romantic dinner at a nice restaurant, perhaps a walk afterwards, and then inviting him to my apartment afterwards. Little would he know, but a hot hung black guy would be there waiting and my date would then have to watch me get fucked into oblivion…. Ahhh that would be so fun!
I haven’t done that exact scenario but I did something a bit similar. It was a second date, and we had planned to go to a lounge for drinks that night. He had no idea that I also planned to have someone be there at the same time. We were having a nice time together at the lounge and all of a sudden I excused myself from our table and my date watched me walk up to the bar to talk to this super tall hot black guy (my friend) and proceed to bring him back to our table. We all chatted for a bit and then I turned and said to my date “Oh and by the way, he’s coming back to the hotel with us”. My date had quite a surprised look but also a smile of delight. Eventually I told him that I had orchestrated it all and the entire night turned out to be so much fun.
My biggest fantasy of all however, is to have my first BBC gangbang on my wedding night. This is something I’ve written about before on my blog and talked about on my podcast. Here is an excerpt:
"I see myself on my knees, my ring sparkling on my finger, my hair perfectly styled and my makeup on point, and my pretty white dress contrasting sharply with the smooth beautiful black skin surrounding me...
They move towards me, and take me - they take what they want and they don't have to ask. My mascara runs down my cheeks, my blonde hair falls out of place, my dress eventually ends up in a messy pile on the floor. I take all of that big black cock like I'm made for it - because…I am.
I look over at my husband sitting there, watching me, loving it. I smile at him and say ‘I love you baby’. I am in heaven and he is right there with me."
Although I haven’t made that fantasy a reality yet, I do know a couple who after saying their vows on their wedding day, snuck off so she could fuck her bull and then raced back to the reception. During the first dance she whispered in his ear “his cum is dripping down my leg”. Oh my gawd that is so HOT! I actually had them on as guests on my show and they went into detail about that story and it was the 2nd most popular episode of 2021!
Some other fun variations of the wedding night fantasy are having a gangbang on wedding anniversaries, birthdays, or a honeymoon - or even having my partner propose to me as he’s watching me get fucked. All of those would be epic for me!
Some other things I’ve fantasized a bit about over the years include fucking my husband’s friends. Now I know that sounds like the potential to get complicated but hey, if it was on the table I would have so much fun with it. Sometimes I think the more naughty and taboo something is, the more I gravitate to it. That’s probably why I love cuckolding in the first place haha!
I’m sure I will create some more amazing fantasies throughout my journey in the cuckolding lifestyle - what they will look like, who knows! All I know for sure is that there are so many incredibly sexy fantasies to be had whether it be hotwifing, cuckolding, swinging, or any other form of non-monogamous relationships. Even if you keep those fantasies as pillow talk with your partner or plan for reality with safety and consent built in, either way it’s absolutely going to amplify your sex life to the next level.
