Here you can find a list of my favourite resources for people who want to learn, grow, and explore in this lifestyle. Enjoy! -Venus xo
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Magazines
The QoS Confessions – The complete collection of the original Queen of Spades Interviews from the original Spades Magazine blog. Exclusive and hot interviews with Real QoS that can’t be found anywhere else. Includes: The 18 original QoS Interviews from the original blog and 9 Bonus, Never Seen Before EXCLUSIVE QoS Interviews
Spades Magazine – (re-launched April 2021!)
Podcasts
The Sex and Psychology Podcast
Radio
Full Swap Radio – https://fullswapradio.com/show-line-up/ – Venus is on every Tuesday
Dating, Webinars, Classes, Community Events
Dating Kinky – https://datingkinky.com/
Sign up for events and information related to cuckolding – https://connect.datingkinky.com/cuck-you-sign-up
Social events sign up – https://datingkinky.com/dating-kinky-social-events/
Blogs
The Art of The Bull – a new blog from the author of Spades Magazine
Cuckoldress Scarlet – a new blog from the cuckoldress perspective
The Geeky Cuckold – a new blog from the cuck perspective
Confident Cuck – a new blog from the cuck perspective
Cuckold Marriage – my good friend Anne who is a Queen of Spades cuckoldress writes a blog about her cuckold marriage with her husband James.
Goddess Worshipping Blog – celebrating women in the lifestyle
Cuckold Kisses – the newest addition to cuckold blogs
Books
“Dating Kinky” – by Nookie Notes
“Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them” David Ley
“Veritable Capitulation: Fear, Reluctance, Acceptance, and Submission – Complete Capitulation Series” – Jim Shue
Cuckolding-Friendly Counselors and Therapists
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists
National Coalition for Sexual Freedoms – Kink Aware Professionals Directory
Cuckolding Articles
The Washington Post – https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/2020/08/27/falwell-conservative-cuckold-fantasies/
CNN article – Cuckolding can be positive for some couples, study says
Savage Love – Why am I turned on by cuckolding?
The Politics of Cuckolding – Psychology Today
Stories of Cuckolding Gone Very, Very Wrong – Vice
A Guide To Cuckolding: The Fetish Where You Enjoy Watching Your Partner Have Sex With Someone Else – Esquire
For Many Couples, Getting Cuckolded Is a Good Thing, Say Scientists – Inverse
Everything You Ever Wanted To Know About Cuckolding – Sex & Psychology
Dan Savage delves into the cuckold fetish
Cuckolding Can Fire up Your Sex Life Again – Marriage.com
Cuckold Study Gets Conservative Panties in a Knot – TheStranger
Savage Love: All about cuckolding – NOW magazine
Everything You Need to Know About Cuckolding – Healthline
Hotwifing Versus Cuckolding: The Epic Guide to Hot Wife and Cuckold Relationships
Cuckolding: The Sex Fetish for Intellectuals
Cuckolding, Cuckqueening, and Sex Fantasies – The Good Men Project
Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Cuckolding: TSOS Podcast Ep. 17
Cuckolding: What’s In It for Women?
Here Is Why A Husband Gives His Wife Encouragement To Be An Adulteress
Being ‘Cucked’ Actually Isn’t All That Weird in Nature
Sex Researcher Thinks Many ‘Cuck’-Obsessed Conservatives Harbor Private Cuckoldry Fantasies
Research Studies
The Psychology of Gay Men’s Cuckolding Fantasies
Inclusive fitness benefits mitigate costs of cuckoldry to socially paired males
Dating
Dating Kinky – https://datingkinky.com/
Chastity
Mature Metal – They have beautiful cages. Here is a review of my favourite one https://thrillofthechaste.net/2015/11/12/queens-keep-official-review/
Listen to “Custom Steel Chastity from Mature Metal” on Spreaker.