Recommended Resources


Here you can find a list of my favourite resources for people who want to learn, grow, and explore in this lifestyle. Enjoy! -Venus xo

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ASN Lifestyle Magazine – Venus has a monthly column in ASN Magazine beginning August 2021


The Sex and Psychology Podcast

The Keys and Anklets Podcast

Savage Lovecast


Cuckold Conversation – a podcast by Confident Cuck


Full Swap Radio – – Venus is on every Tuesday


The Art of The Bull – a new blog from the author of Spades Magazine

Cuckoldress Scarlet – a new blog from the cuckoldress perspective

Confident Cuck – a new blog from the cuck perspective

Cuckold Marriage – my good friend Anne who is a Queen of Spades cuckoldress writes a blog about her cuckold marriage with her husband James.

The Taboo Couple Next Door

Goddess Worshipping Blog – celebrating women in the lifestyle

Jack & Bunni 


Locked-In Love”: How two weeks in chastity can end the barter system, renew courtship and make a better husband – by Key Barrett

“Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them” David Ley

Veritable Capitulation: Fear, Reluctance, Acceptance, and Submission – Complete Capitulation Series” – Jim Shue

“Tell Me What You Want” The science of sexual desire and how it can improve your sex life. The largest survey of sexual fantasies in America–and what your sexual desires say about you – by Justin Lehmiller

“Surrender, Submit, Serve Her.” The definitive guide to enacting Female Leadership and embracing the Female Dominated Household. by Key Barrett


Casual Toys –

Cuckolding-Friendly Counselors and Therapists

American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists
National Coalition for Sexual Freedoms – Kink Aware Professionals Directory

Recommended Videos 

Cuckolding Articles

Sperm Wars: Cuckolds, Threesomes, and Evolutionary Biology

NBC News –

The Washington Post –

CNN article – Cuckolding can be positive for some couples, study says

Savage Love – Why am I turned on by cuckolding?

The Politics of Cuckolding – Psychology Today

Stories of Cuckolding Gone Very, Very Wrong – Vice

A Guide To Cuckolding: The Fetish Where You Enjoy Watching Your Partner Have Sex With Someone Else – Esquire

Cuckolding can be GOOD for couples: Watching your partner have sex with another person can strengthen your relationship, claim controversial scientists – Daily Mail

For Many Couples, Getting Cuckolded Is a Good Thing, Say Scientists – Inverse

Everything You Ever Wanted To Know About Cuckolding – Sex & Psychology

Dan Savage delves into the cuckold fetish

Cuckolding Can Fire up Your Sex Life Again –

Cuckold Study Gets Conservative Panties in a Knot – TheStranger

Savage Love: All about cuckolding – NOW magazine

Everything You Need to Know About Cuckolding – Healthline

Hotwifing Versus Cuckolding: The Epic Guide to Hot Wife and Cuckold Relationships

Cuckolding: The Sex Fetish for Intellectuals

Cuckolding, Cuckqueening, and Sex Fantasies – The Good Men Project

Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Cuckolding: TSOS Podcast Ep. 17

Cuckolding: What’s In It for Women?

Here Is Why A Husband Gives His Wife Encouragement To Be An Adulteress

Being ‘Cucked’ Actually Isn’t All That Weird in Nature

Sex Researcher Thinks Many ‘Cuck’-Obsessed Conservatives Harbor Private Cuckoldry Fantasies

Research Studies

The Psychology of Gay Men’s Cuckolding Fantasies

The view from the cuckold: A review of S. M. Platek and T. K. Shackelford (Eds.), Female infidelity and paternal uncertainty: Evolutionary perspectives on male anti-cuckoldry tactics

Human Sperm Competition

Inclusive fitness benefits mitigate costs of cuckoldry to socially paired males


Mature Metal – They have beautiful cages. Here is a review of my favourite one 

Listen to “Custom Steel Chastity from Mature Metal” on Spreaker.

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