Here you can find a list of my favourite resources for people who want to learn, grow, and explore in this lifestyle. Enjoy! -Venus xo
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Magazines
ASN Lifestyle Magazine – Venus has a monthly column in ASN Magazine beginning August 2021
Podcasts
The Sex and Psychology Podcast
Cuckold Conversation – a podcast by Confident Cuck
Consenting Adults with Leyna Nguyen
Radio
Full Swap Radio – https://fullswapradio.com/show-line-up/ – Venus is on every Tuesday
Blogs
The Art of The Bull – a new blog from the author of Spades Magazine
Cuckoldress Scarlet – a new blog from the cuckoldress perspective
Confident Cuck – a new blog from the cuck perspective
Cuckold Marriage – my good friend Anne who is a Queen of Spades cuckoldress writes a blog about her cuckold marriage with her husband James.
Goddess Worshipping Blog – celebrating women in the lifestyle
Books
“Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them” David Ley
“Veritable Capitulation: Fear, Reluctance, Acceptance, and Submission – Complete Capitulation Series” – Jim Shue
Toys
Casual Toys – https://www.casualtoys.com/
Cuckolding-Friendly Counselors and Therapists
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists
National Coalition for Sexual Freedoms – Kink Aware Professionals Directory
Ask Questions and get Advice
Crystal Welch – “With 20 years of practical experience with consensual non-monogamy, from cuckolding, polyamory, open, or swinging, I get inundated with questions. In an attempt to give each person the personal attention they desire, here is an opportunity. Most people have many questions about how to start, how to talk to a partner, how to solve problems and how to create the intimacy you desire. Married 8 years (very happily) with my cuckold husband in Portland, OR”
Confident Cuck – his Patreon supporters are able to ask questions and get advice. “Confident Cuck is working to bring you the best conversations and the most detail about the cuckolding lifestyle. Supporting the Patreon supports the podcast and blog as well as provides access to cuckolding advice weekly from the Confident Cuck himself. “
Recommended Videos
Cuckolding Articles
“Why More Women Are Suggesting Open Relationships”
Women Struggle with Monogamy More Than Men
A strong libido and bored by monogamy: the truth about women and sex
Sperm Wars: Cuckolds, Threesomes, and Evolutionary Biology
The Washington Post – https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/2020/08/27/falwell-conservative-cuckold-fantasies/
CNN article – Cuckolding can be positive for some couples, study says
Savage Love – Why am I turned on by cuckolding?
The Politics of Cuckolding – Psychology Today
For Many Couples, Getting Cuckolded Is a Good Thing, Say Scientists – Inverse
Everything You Ever Wanted To Know About Cuckolding – Sex & Psychology
Dan Savage delves into the cuckold fetish
Cuckolding Can Fire up Your Sex Life Again – Marriage.com
Cuckold Study Gets Conservative Panties in a Knot – TheStranger
Savage Love: All about cuckolding – NOW magazine
Cuckolding: What’s In It for Women?
Being ‘Cucked’ Actually Isn’t All That Weird in Nature
Sex Researcher Thinks Many ‘Cuck’-Obsessed Conservatives Harbor Private Cuckoldry Fantasies
Research Studies
The Psychology of Gay Men’s Cuckolding Fantasies
Inclusive fitness benefits mitigate costs of cuckoldry to socially paired males
What factors are associated with reporting lacking interest in sex and how do these vary by gender?
Dating and Events
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