[Guest Post] Health Benefits of Cuckolding

I’ll be honest. We didn’t embark on this journey because of the health benefits. There were lots of other aspects that drew us towards cuckolding. Enhanced connection between each other. Excitement. Escape. The fun of dirty erotic delicious sex. As a doctor I’m never far away from thinking about biology and health and as our journey progressed I got to thinking that there had to be some biochemical change that made this life so enjoyable.

Dopamine is the reward molecule in our brain that makes us feel pleasure. It motivates us to repeat a specific behaviour that is enjoyable. Knowing my wife was having great sex, her bringing that passion home afterwards, the eroticism of it all.  Pleasure. Dopamine release. This seemed too simplistic though. We weren’t just enjoying ourselves in this life. We were happier. We had more energy. We had more drive. We slept better. Lying in bed one night after a particularly good night of cucking (she’d had her bull and his roommate fuck her for hours followed by clean up and more sex with me) we talked about all the emotions around the experience. She realized something she’d never really put in to words before. She had this clarity of thought. It was almost as if she had some heightened cognitive ability. It’s hard to even put in to words. She just seemed smarter.

Semen is an amazing thing. It contains many healthy molecules and hormones. One in particular – Nerve Growth Factor (NGF) – can actually enhance cognition. It helps nerves grow and repair themselves. It has anti-inflammatory properties. When we gain weight and don’t exercise our levels of NGF drop. This can actually drop our cognitive skills. Ingesting semen can boost levels of NGF. Swallowing semen probably isn’t as effective as absorption through the vagina and uterus. Acid in the stomach might break the molecule down. As much as a good blow job or anal sex is fun evolution did optimize reproduction and semen for release in to the vagina. When a man ejaculates in to a woman all of the hormones contained in semen are released into her providing physiologic benefit.

Testosterone also increases our cognition but also our focus and drive. It is one of the main factors determining sex drive. It boosts our mood and energy. Semen is full of testosterone. Fortunately this molecule isn’t broken down in the stomach acid so blow jobs are still a health benefit. Now you might be thinking semen sounds great but what does this have to do with cuckolding? Why not just have 1:1 sex and still get the same benefits? Fair enough.

Most men are excited by the idea of their wife or girlfriend being with another guy. If you weren’t you probably wouldn’t be reading this post. When a man thinks about his wife with another man his testosterone increases. His erections are stronger. His drive is higher. He is competing for his wife. His biology responds by raising his own testosterone. Knowing another man has ejaculated in to his wife and that she has thoroughly enjoyed herself takes things to an even higher level. Being cuckolded will dramatically raise your testosterone levels. The concentration of testosterone in your semen will also markedly increase. It’s not just testosterone but also oxytocin, endorphins, serotonin, and the list goes on. That delay in reaching your own climax – that oh so painful wait while your wife is spreading herself for a fit attractive endowed bull, getting filled and fucked hard – you are building up testosterone among other hormones. Her bull pumping her full of cum is pumping both her and the cuck full of testosterone.

You can start to see the cascade effect here. Healthier semen full of more hormones that you are then releasing in to your wife. But you are just one person giving her this benefit. Her bull or bulls are doing the same. And the bulls out there know this is a fun lifestyle that also raises your testosterone. More testosterone and healthy hormones for the cuckoldress from multiple sources. She gets more benefit than semen from a single source. It doesn’t stop there. One of the most rewarding aspects of this cuckold relationship is the cleanup. I always would feel this boost in mood and energy after cleaning up my wife when she comes home from a night of passion. Of course it’s a more emotionally complex process than just some hormones but the semen in the clean up does contain a lot of testosterone that gets absorbed in to the guy enjoying tasting his wife’s earlier fun. Those nights I’ve enjoyed cleaning her up after she’s been with her bull and his roommate when she’s that extra full and satisfied even after I’ve cum I find I have an erection most of the night and in to the next day. Testosterone I’ve swallowed is part of the reason.

I know the biochemistry of it all can seem somewhat boring but we really are just a collection of chemicals and molecules. It’s fascinating to think about some of the biology behind cuckolding. Maybe it’s even an ice breaker with your partner to open up about some of your own desires about this lifestyle. Talk about some of the benefits you’ve read about semen. Bridge that in to discussing benefits of semen from another source. Remember though semen can also contain STDs and being safe is important. We only play unprotected with bulls we trust and who have been tested. Nothing kills drive and mood faster than an infection you sure don’t want!

Stay safe out there and get that semen in to you. Both of you.

Aaron and Simone

About the author

Aaron & Simone are a couple who have been transitioning into a cuckold lifestyle over the last 10 years. They are in their 40’s, have a busy family and busy jobs, and busy life, and they keep this fun kink discrete. They are a physician and psychologist who love to communicate and share with others. They’ve learned a lot over the years and want to share whatever they can to help others.