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This is a must read for all singles and couples! Wondering how to date in this lifestyle, how to approach women, how to get your wife into cuckolding, or even navigate cuck fear? Interested in what cuckolding really is from a woman’s point of view? These posts are for you!
Yeah you read the title correctly – she really did enter him into a small penis contest. And where do they even have these competitions right?? So many questions…
Venus sits down with her long time cuck friend Jay to talk about how he dove head first right into the deep end of a cuckolding relationship with his girlfriend in college – and she REALLY got into it! When it comes to teasing and humiliation she really does deserve a trophy. Jay also talks about some common cuck hang-ups and how to “lean into the angst” in a way that makes it more comfortable.
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Cuckolding relationships are next-level love, trust, and connection. To some people that may seem like a bold statement…maybe even unbelievable, but take my word on this – truly magical shit happens within a loving cuckolding relationship. Once I experienced exactly that, I made it my mission to share this incredibly beautiful relationship dynamic with the world – especially with women.
It all started 6 years ago. Through a dating app I met a guy who told me he would be happiest if he was monogamous to me and I was not to him – basically a one sided open relationship. He celebrated the sexual side of me (which before him was rarely celebrated without judgment or jealousy) and he absolutely loved me for it. This was absolutely astounding to me! This kind of relationship seemed to fit exactly who I was and that felt like a huge relief to find something so right and yet up until then I didn’t even know it existed. I wondered how many other women would benefit from learning about this kind of relationship.
I wasn’t prepared for what happened next. Sure it was so very hot to talk about cuckolding fantasies together, and so fun to tease him by sending him photos and videos of me with other men, but the first time I had him listen on the phone… that’s when it all changed.
I happened to find an experienced bull and arranged a hotel night where I would have the phone near me and my boyfriend listen. It wasn’t my first time meeting someone new so that didn’t make me nervous, but I have to admit…having him listen was new and did give me butterflies. This part was new and exciting for me.
In my mind I thought the night would go predictably – hot, fun, and memorable – but it was entirely something else. It was a mind-blowing, life changing event.
There really is something magical that happens when you involve someone you love in a situation like that. I held the phone close when I dropped to my knees and worshipped that big black dick in front of me. He heard everything, every gasp I made, every word I whispered, and I could just imagine what was going through his mind. It was thrilling. It was intense. He loved me so much for being in that position, for including him in that way, for making him feel that way…the way only a cuck would feel. It was the ultimate expression of love, emotional intimacy and trust – next level shit. And afterwards we enjoyed a kind of euphoric high that lasted for days…it was something I will never ever forget and it’s the reason why I could never go back to any other kind of relationship.
It’s that emotional dance between both of you that makes cuckolding so wonderful. It’s not role play, it’s not hotwifing, it’s not BDSM, it’s deep mind-bending hot-as-fuck cuckolding love and it only works in a loving relationship. Sure it’s fun to be able to fuck other guys and still have a loving committed partner to come home to, someone who wants to stay faithful to you because their passion is seeing you happy and sexually fulfilled, but it’s the confidence and sexual empowerment naturally gifted to her which is life changing and is everything so many women want, need, and deserve.
Trust her. Love her. Give her the gift of sexual exploration. Celebrate the allure of her unrestrained sexuality. Witness her transformation and relish in her new-found sexual prowess. It’s about her. And in return of that gift there will be no limit to her love and gratitude for you. Let her sit in the driver’s seat and take the wheel. This journey is yours together. Enjoy the ride.
He had so many couples contacting him that there just wasn’t enough of him to go around. So to share the love he put together a list of guys who he had already vetted and who met the criteria for intimate gangbangs. That’s how The4WhoresMen was founded.
He’s an experienced black bull in the cuckolding lifestyle and has a particular love for interracial cuckolding (sexy!) and he’s here to talk about race-play, gangbangs, and how to set the mood just right (which by the way, he is kind of expert-level!).
It’s a fun, thought provoking, and very sexy episode!
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“They’re focusing entirely on the sexual acts/fantasies of cuckolding and haven’t stopped to realize that they only know about 2% of what cuckolding really is, and they will never know because they will never experience a real loving cuckold relationship, and all because they will never even learn how to approach women with respect and simply focus on building something real.”
There’s no way around it – this post is going to sound like I’m shitting on cucks. Sorry in advance.
First let me start out by saying that over the years I have met some couples and single cucks who I love and adore and whose friendships will likely last a lifetime and I’m so grateful to have met these beautiful, respectful, classy people but this post is about the countless number of cucks who are out there behaving like morons. This one is for you.
Today I came across a woman around the same age as me who is trying to navigate the dating world of single cucks and let’s just say, it sucks. Her stories are all too familiar to me; single cucks are forever stuck with one foot outside of the cuck closet and unable to get the courage to come on out and experience this beautiful relationship for what it is, and they are obsessed with using her as a temporary fetish dispenser so they can endlessly jerk off about it. This bad behaviour is an epidemic going on within this lifestyle and it’s not good for anyone but especially detrimental to women who have the courage to want this kind of relationship.
Imagine being a single woman and putting yourself out there, seeking this kind of relationship and being bombarded online by cucks who seem interested but really are only interested in using you for jerk off material. All they want to do is ask you a thousand questions about how you would cuck them so they can get all hot and bothered and rub one out again and again – they’re not going to ask her anything else, not get to know her, not treat her like an actual person. That alone is enough for a woman to say fuck it and never come back to this. But no, she also has to deal with the usual catfish, crazy stalkers, and married guys pretending to be single. But the worst of it is…when she finds a guy who she really likes and when it comes time to meet…poof he’s gone. He locked himself firmly into the cuck closet again, never to be heard from again. Over and over again she has experienced this and the stories from other women are similar across the board.
I get it – cuckolding is hot as fuck. Obviously I get that. But for fuck’s sakes can’t more people online give it some credibility and make it more about dating or relationships than just porn?? Just look at what kind of environment has been created online – it’s a sea of male fantasy bullshit driven porn – certainly not female friendly in any way. No fucking wonder there aren’t more women into this. No fucking wonder wives are hesitant to even consider it. No wonder guys don’t take it seriously. For example there are married cucks online posting naked pics of their wives (faces and personal info) in chat rooms just for the purpose of jerking off when a bull makes comments about it. I seriously fucking doubt the wife has consented! What in the actual fuck are you doing to your relationship, the disrespect for your wife, the perception of cuckolding relationships to anyone who sees that??
So many cucks are just mentally warped by the heroin for masturbation which is all over the internet and it’s created a rampant toxic cuck mentality and that is now a massive turn off for women. They’re making the mistake of focusing entirely on the sexual acts/fantasies of cuckolding and haven’t stopped to realize that they only know about 2% of what cuckolding really is, and they will never know because they will never experience a real loving cuckold relationship, and all because they will never even learn how to approach women with respect and simply focus on building something real.
A big part of what I do is talk about cuckolding relationships so that women will consider it as a valid relationship option and yet I also feel sorry for the women who decide to do just that. I cringe to think about what it’s going to be like for them once they go through what the rest of us go through and I just pray that they won’t give up on it.
Cucks need to set the bar higher for each other, stop acting like fantasy driven pigs, and ask yourself how you are contributing to this on a bigger level. Either that or stop complaining to me about how it’s so hard to find women who are looking for a cuck relationship – I don’t want to fucking hear it anymore.