Interracial Cuckolding – When she gets hooked on BBC

This is the trilogy episode of Interracial Cuckolding and explores the female perspective of what it’s like to realize you were missing out until you found interracial cuckolding – specifically with black bulls.  What exactly is it about BBC that is so appealing? Is it contrast? Is it size? Is it chemistry? Is it performance?

If you are at all curious about what interracial cuckolding is like, or have wondered why some women deeply enjoy this particular aspect, then this is the episode for you.

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Here are the previous episodes on Interracial Cuckolding:
When she goes black – https://venus.buzzsprout.com/822292/3150016-when-she-goes-black-interracial-cuckolding
TheBlackBull100 – https://venus.buzzsprout.com/822292/8250431-interracial-cuckolding-a-sequel-with-theblackbull100

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[Guest Post] What goes on in my head in this lifestyle…

My husband asked me the other day what goes through my head when I’m meeting up with a bull. This should be an easy question I thought but I didn’t have an instant answer, for him. I knew I felt a complex set of emotions, mostly good ones, a huge sense of pleasure, and this excitement of being in this lifestyle. One of the things that draws me to this adventure is the complex mix of feelings and different connections that happen throughout an encounter. There is the connection to myself, my husband, and my bull. I’d just never put what goes on in my head to words before. It’s about time I change that.

For me an encounter starts days before even meeting up with my bull. I feel a sense of sexual desire. I find myself fantasizing about possibilities. Having a busy life, I tend to find myself suppressing these deliciously naughty thoughts. My hormones always get the better of me thankfully. The thoughts keep coming. My desire builds. I reach out to my bull. Usually by texting something benign but he knows me well. “How are you? Just thinking about you” very quickly turns in to reminiscing and sexting. I feel confident. Sophisticated in my ability to turn him on. I feel lust towards him. I feel love towards my husband for trusting me. For trusting our relationship. I feel young and vibrant inside. I feel sexy. I like knowing I’m building desire in my bull.

This build up before getting together is really important for my brain. I love the anticipation that develops from this foreplay. It creates distraction from my busy life. I will dress in more sexy attire. I’ll have more energy in my day to day conversations. I’m distracted but sharper at the same time. I’m turned on more than just at a sexual level. My husband will notice this. I like to tell him well before I have a date night so that I can enjoy the emotion he brings to the experience. We feed off each other’s sexual energy. I enjoy the feeling I get from teasing him. Little things like getting my hair done or nails done. He knows it’s not just for me but my bull too. I’ll make sure he sees me trying on new lingerie. He sees me work out that little bit harder. I feel his pride towards me but also that hint of jealousy. I like feeling in charge of my body. My sexuality.

Date night arrives. New emotions come flooding in. There is always that fear someone is going to discover this part of my life. Family, work, kids. Overwhelming sexual lust has always pushed right past any fear. I’m energized. I’m wet. I’m ready to fuck. Anticipation has turned to frustration and impatience. My fun can’t start soon enough. There is a part of me that worries I’m not good enough for this hard bodied younger stunningly hot man. Another part worries that what I’m doing just can’t be normal. But it feels so good for all three of us. This is our normal and I love it.

“There is a part of me that worries I’m not good enough for this hard bodied younger stunningly hot man. Another part worries that what I’m doing just can’t be normal. But it feels so good for all three of us. This is our normal and I love it.”

My husband likes to watch me get ready. I enjoy his gaze too. He knows not to touch me or himself. He walks me out to the car. We passionately kiss. We say a truly honest I love you and then I’m off. Driving to meet my bull is always a surreal time for me. I’m alone with my thoughts. I’m so turned on by this point. I’m in a very sexual headspace. I’m not thinking about all the complexities of life. I’m thinking about my pleasure. My bulls pleasure. What limit can I push to make this even better? What do I really want? I spend so much time looking after everyone else in my life and this is a time for my needs to be met. I worry I have it too good, the universe must need to balance things out. Will a bus hit me on the way to my hotel room? Why am I so lucky to be enjoying this. Shouldn’t I be feeling some guilt?

Walking in to the hotel lobby I feel strong. Sexy. Confident. Excited but calm. My husband has asked if I think about him once I’m there with my bull. Honestly the answer is no. It’s not that I don’t care about what he’s feeling. Quite the opposite. I know what really works for him and turns him on is if I’m fully engaged with my lover and myself. I’m being me. I’m not managing him. This part is my adventure. I’m having fun so that I can experience a full life. My husband gets to experience me afterwards.

One of the biggest benefits or feelings is that I’m in a safe place to be myself away from my home. I can be loud. No kids are going to walk in on me. Room service did walk in on me once while getting DP’d by my bull and his roommate but that’s another story! We can take our time to touch each other. To kiss. To suck. To be playful. It’s really satisfying sex. Passionate and raw. Sex with my husband is really intimate but this is different. My bulls have always been stronger. They fuck me with more intensity. I feel dirty and used in a good way. It’s a solid full body workout that gets us dripping in sweat. I feel lucky. Good sore. Full. So very full.

I’ve chosen a sex partner not a life partner for my bull. My bulls have been smart and funny – personality matters – but I’ve picked men mostly for their abilities in the bedroom. They have stamina. They have strength. They know how to fuck me. How to fuck me hard. I know I’m not committed to them forever. Nor they to me. Our relationship is 90% about sex and not bogged down with normal relationship issues. We have no mortgage, taxes, business, or child challenges to navigate. We have to simply decide if we fuck on the bed or bent over the couch? Do I want my ass filled or my face fucked? While grabbing a drink in the lobby bar do we let the cute guy at the table across from us watch my bull finger my pussy? Really deep challenging issues! It is so freeing to be in this relationship for the night.

There is a moment of intense intimacy when my bull finally releases inside of me. We usually slow our fucking down. He pushes deeply in to me. Really filling me. I kiss him as he unloads in to my body. I love the connection we have in that moment. I love the lust in his eyes. I love his understanding of this whole dynamic. Once we’ve caught our breath he withdraws out of me carefully. He knows it’s important for his seed not to all come out. He carefully pulls my panties back on to me to help keep our climax inside my body. It’s at this point I think of my husband. Truly the most most important person in my life. Our trust and love has allowed me this pleasure. I’ve been masterfully fucked for hours because of that bond and trust.

The drive back home is always longer it seems. I have this huge desire to connect with him. To show him my love for him. To share my experience. To see that desperate need he has to fuck me. It feels so good to see him so turned on. I like how hard he is. How ready he is to unload. Often I will climb up on our bed on my stomach, a pillow underneath me, presenting my well used body to him. I like feeling his jealousy. I like being in charge of how many details I give to him about my night. In this moment his only thought is of what I’ve done this evening. I like being his only focus. His need to get off. The power dynamic between us is intense. I like that his pleasure comes from my pleasure earlier in the night.

Sometimes he will clean me up. I truthfully have mixed feelings about this. I feel badly I’m such a mess for him. I worry he’s doing it for me even though he insists it’s for him. I like the pleasure his mouth brings to me. What I really crave is his cock inside of me. I want his cum in me. I want his cum to fill me like my bulls did. I don’t want him locked up. I want to use his cock for more pleasure. That feeling of him unable to hold back. Him wrapping his arms around me absolutely satisfied. Falling asleep with both their orgasms inside of me. Complete bliss.

I’m sure what goes through my head isn’t going to be the same for all women in this lifestyle. I would encourage women who are thinking about doing this and have hesitations to take that plunge. It’s a journey full of emotions but the connections and intimacy that comes from all of this is truly magical.

Simone

About the author

Aaron & Simone are a couple who have been transitioning into a cuckold lifestyle over the last 10 years. They are in their 40’s, have a busy family and busy jobs, and busy life, and they keep this fun kink discrete. They are a physician and psychologist who love to communicate and share with others. They’ve learned a lot over the years and want to share whatever they can to help others.

Have you been stuck on the fence?

This episode starts off with some exciting announcements including NEW MERCH for The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast! Whether you want something cheeky, bold, subtle, or sweet, the Venus store will have something for everyone. Use promo code VENUS for a discount at checkout. Have a look here: https://www.fullswapshop.com/store/venus-cuckoldress/

Next, S from GTAhotwife  joins Venus to respond to a listener’s plea for help. One minute her partner seems to want her to fulfill his fetish fantasies and the next minute it’s the opposite and she’s left confused and wondering what to do. Is he stuck on the fence? Is this to be expected with an inexperienced cuck? What steps can they take to repair the damage and move forward together?

Many new couples will be able to relate to their struggles so if you want to avoid some pitfalls or are experiencing them now, this episode is for you!

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[Guest Post] Health Benefits of Cuckolding

I’ll be honest. We didn’t embark on this journey because of the health benefits. There were lots of other aspects that drew us towards cuckolding. Enhanced connection between each other. Excitement. Escape. The fun of dirty erotic delicious sex. As a doctor I’m never far away from thinking about biology and health and as our journey progressed I got to thinking that there had to be some biochemical change that made this life so enjoyable.

Dopamine is the reward molecule in our brain that makes us feel pleasure. It motivates us to repeat a specific behaviour that is enjoyable. Knowing my wife was having great sex, her bringing that passion home afterwards, the eroticism of it all.  Pleasure. Dopamine release. This seemed too simplistic though. We weren’t just enjoying ourselves in this life. We were happier. We had more energy. We had more drive. We slept better. Lying in bed one night after a particularly good night of cucking (she’d had her bull and his roommate fuck her for hours followed by clean up and more sex with me) we talked about all the emotions around the experience. She realized something she’d never really put in to words before. She had this clarity of thought. It was almost as if she had some heightened cognitive ability. It’s hard to even put in to words. She just seemed smarter.

Semen is an amazing thing. It contains many healthy molecules and hormones. One in particular – Nerve Growth Factor (NGF) – can actually enhance cognition. It helps nerves grow and repair themselves. It has anti-inflammatory properties. When we gain weight and don’t exercise our levels of NGF drop. This can actually drop our cognitive skills. Ingesting semen can boost levels of NGF. Swallowing semen probably isn’t as effective as absorption through the vagina and uterus. Acid in the stomach might break the molecule down. As much as a good blow job or anal sex is fun evolution did optimize reproduction and semen for release in to the vagina. When a man ejaculates in to a woman all of the hormones contained in semen are released into her providing physiologic benefit.

Testosterone also increases our cognition but also our focus and drive. It is one of the main factors determining sex drive. It boosts our mood and energy. Semen is full of testosterone. Fortunately this molecule isn’t broken down in the stomach acid so blow jobs are still a health benefit. Now you might be thinking semen sounds great but what does this have to do with cuckolding? Why not just have 1:1 sex and still get the same benefits? Fair enough.

Most men are excited by the idea of their wife or girlfriend being with another guy. If you weren’t you probably wouldn’t be reading this post. When a man thinks about his wife with another man his testosterone increases. His erections are stronger. His drive is higher. He is competing for his wife. His biology responds by raising his own testosterone. Knowing another man has ejaculated in to his wife and that she has thoroughly enjoyed herself takes things to an even higher level. Being cuckolded will dramatically raise your testosterone levels. The concentration of testosterone in your semen will also markedly increase. It’s not just testosterone but also oxytocin, endorphins, serotonin, and the list goes on. That delay in reaching your own climax – that oh so painful wait while your wife is spreading herself for a fit attractive endowed bull, getting filled and fucked hard – you are building up testosterone among other hormones. Her bull pumping her full of cum is pumping both her and the cuck full of testosterone.

You can start to see the cascade effect here. Healthier semen full of more hormones that you are then releasing in to your wife. But you are just one person giving her this benefit. Her bull or bulls are doing the same. And the bulls out there know this is a fun lifestyle that also raises your testosterone. More testosterone and healthy hormones for the cuckoldress from multiple sources. She gets more benefit than semen from a single source. It doesn’t stop there. One of the most rewarding aspects of this cuckold relationship is the cleanup. I always would feel this boost in mood and energy after cleaning up my wife when she comes home from a night of passion. Of course it’s a more emotionally complex process than just some hormones but the semen in the clean up does contain a lot of testosterone that gets absorbed in to the guy enjoying tasting his wife’s earlier fun. Those nights I’ve enjoyed cleaning her up after she’s been with her bull and his roommate when she’s that extra full and satisfied even after I’ve cum I find I have an erection most of the night and in to the next day. Testosterone I’ve swallowed is part of the reason.

I know the biochemistry of it all can seem somewhat boring but we really are just a collection of chemicals and molecules. It’s fascinating to think about some of the biology behind cuckolding. Maybe it’s even an ice breaker with your partner to open up about some of your own desires about this lifestyle. Talk about some of the benefits you’ve read about semen. Bridge that in to discussing benefits of semen from another source. Remember though semen can also contain STDs and being safe is important. We only play unprotected with bulls we trust and who have been tested. Nothing kills drive and mood faster than an infection you sure don’t want!

Stay safe out there and get that semen in to you. Both of you.

Aaron and Simone

About the author

Aaron & Simone are a couple who have been transitioning into a cuckold lifestyle over the last 10 years. They are in their 40’s, have a busy family and busy jobs, and busy life, and they keep this fun kink discrete. They are a physician and psychologist who love to communicate and share with others. They’ve learned a lot over the years and want to share whatever they can to help others.

Unraveling the cuck shame spiral – with Dr David Ley

Have you struggled with the cuckolding fantasies and thoughts that you have? Have you felt like you don’t have control over them? Do you feel “addicted” to cuckold porn or cuckolding fantasy sites? This episode could quite possibly be the most important thing you’ll listen to!

Dr. David Ley sits down with Venus to explore why so many men seem to fall into the cuck shame spiral, the reasons behind it, and steps they can take begin to turn it around.

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David Ley is a clinical psychologist, sex therapist and author, based in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He’s the author of several books and research articles on sexuality, including his first book, Insatiable Wives – Women who Stray and the Men Who Love Them, which was the first book to examine the cuckolding and hotwife phenomenon. With Justin Lehmiller and Dan Savage, he published the first psychological study of the cuckold fantasy. Dr. Ley is a frequent guest in media around the world, with appearances in the New York Times, CNN and Time Magazine, as well as Hustler and Playboy magazines.

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Books by Dr. David Ley:
Insatiable Wives
The Myth of Sex Addiction