Cuckold Porn is Garbage

A few years ago when I was introduced to cuckolding by a new boyfriend I was lucky enough to not have watched any cuck porn prior to that. I say lucky because I think the vast majority of cuck porn out there is fucking garbage.

Still to this day I haven’t found any cuck porn that I like very much so I just mainly stick to interracial BBC content and at least that satisfies my Queen of Spades needs. It got me wondering though…why is cuck porn so awful? Why have porn companies done such a bad job with this one category?

Cuckolding (in my mind) is a complex emotional dynamic between two people who are in love and in a deeply committed relationship, and it’s nearly impossible to be able to translate that emotional exchange from the screen to the viewer using mainstream  porn.

Sure you can have the husband watching his wife get pounded by another man, but how boring is that for the viewer? So producers try to spice it up with the femdom aspect and use it to humiliate the husband overtly and cruelly – this story line dominates the cuckold videos online and that’s fine for those who love it but I think it misses the mark.

Then there are the many amateur videos online to kind of fill that void I guess and yes there are some fairly good ones out there but I haven’t found any that I really love either. I think the realness of the scene is appreciated by the viewers but still is missing something in the translation to the person watching who is trying to imagine being there, a part of it.

Then there are the cuckolding memes that dominate Tumblr, Twitter, Instagram, and all sorts of other places. These I’m sure are all made by guys who want to convey and share their desires and fantasies in this kind of lifestyle and I think it’s these memes that more accurately describe cuckolding than porn videos.  It’s usually just an image and a small piece of narrative attached to it but it’s powerful and triggers thoughts in motion, deep desires, and massive arousal.  Pretty much every  cuck who I’ve talked to has a little collection of favourites.  Funny enough someone once stole one of my Fetlife photos and made a meme with it and posted it somewhere and I didn’t know whether to be pissed off about it or flattered – seriously just ask permission first guys!

Anyways I’m always hoping that more women will come to understand and appreciate this kind of relationship and unfortunately I think cuckold porn isn’t helping with that. In fact I think it’s a deterrent.

 

Venus xo

 

23 thoughts on “Cuckold Porn is Garbage”

  1. I couldn’t agree more! The feigned disgust of the husband with his face pressed against his wife’s vagina is almost funny.

    I prefer the captions or “memes” as if they get the wording right and it tells a little story you can connect to it more so. Everyone has their trigger words or phrases that really get them going.

    I like to watch amateur videos with a girl that looks like my wife. This helps my fantasize that I’m watching my own private cuckold video and watching my wife have sex. You just have to have a little imagination I guess 🙂

  2. Dear queen Venus, since you are an authority on cuckolding and a good one at that, could advice me of a good movie which features a white wife cuckolding her white husband to a well hung black bull?

          1. Nice movie, very intense but leaning a little to the commercial side. There is another site called yourdarkhorizon where in the video a white mother manifests her desire and wishes for her daughter to fuck black cock; you might find it interesting if you haven’t watched already. Give me your comment if you ever decide to see it.

  3. Plus, in reality, it is much more intense. These captions are made by unexperienced submissives. Anyone with half a brain can see you’re the real deal.

    A night with you would propably give them PTSD.

  4. Cuckold porn is the single biggest impediment in embarking on a cuckold lifestyle. Most wives are going to have a problem with the cuckold porn obsession with humiliation and cruelty. But discussing cuckolding at the water cooler is not so practical either! Don’t get me wrong, cuckolding infers some degree of humiliation but its a lot more than that too. Check out our perspective at
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  5. I definitely agree Venus! Why don’t we collaborate on making some better content. I have several ideas/scripts that would be very good, and well recieved. Have you seen “the Girlfriend Game” it’s an Indy film that I think gets pretty close to the emotional allure of cuckolding, I recommend it. If you’d like to talk some ideas, I’ll email you my contact info. Keep up the great content and sexy work! – Jay

  6. There needs to be more direction from women in this area….otherwise it will continue to cater to men’s warped ideas of what it entails. Your efforts are certainly progress to inform those of us seeking to understand the lifestyle from a woman’s perspective.

  7. Dammmnnn Venus! Like that? :p

    I suppose there is some accuracy to the vast majority of peoples consensus on the subject. One of my most viewed videos is an Amateur gone viral couple “Hotwife Rio”. My Tumblr fluctuates from 5th to 2nd place for “Cuckold Creampie Tumblr” and currently triples my Video Streams SEMrush referral quantity by 300%

  8. If I could find some cuckold “porn” that was just the cuckold watching and helping his wife prepare for a date and the dialogue between them during that time, i would be in heaven. Or the interaction between them after she comes home from her date.

    1. 100 agree! My current playmate is a sexy little redhead escort & I DGAF about having any involvement with her clients or her other lovers whatsoever! but I ver much love the hell out of picking her up after her dates and worshipping her with a nice rubdown and some expertly delivered tantric oral stimulation.

  9. I think this is true not only for cuck porn but for the entire porn industrie as well. I don’t believe that in other categories there is quality or that any scene can reflect reality…
    On the other hand cuck porn is now 2nd more favorite category in most western countries..
    Personally, since at least a decade now, when I want to watch porn I select: Interracial Cuckold…
    Something is better than nothing and cuckold porn was non existent, even interracial was rare…
    I wish I could find cuckold porn when I was 14 and had realized that I was born to be stag/wife-sharer/wife-swinger/cuck(I was not familiar with term cuck then, cuck porn has helped in that direction)!!

    1. I totally agree with you, i wish the internet existed when i was in my teens as well, it was a saviour for me when it did come along in my late 20’s. For all of my 20’s I had no idea I was a cuckold, knew what one was, why I was one, realised i’m not alone etc. on top of finally being able to buy small condoms discretely or at all, for the first 15 years of my sexual life, I was unable to buy small ones anywhere and just assumed they didn’t exist, because i was also unaware that other men were out there with small dicks.
      Young cuckolds these days at least have information, sites, porn and forums like this to refer to and not feel nearly as isolated as I did as a kid.

  10. Consider that porn in general is often unable to convey emotional connection. How much harder must it be to do so in such a complex dynamic as cuckolding? I think the makers of cuckold porn fall back on humiliation and cruelty because they’re obvious reactions that uninformed people expect.

  11. I enjoyed your article very much and took a snippet of it and forwarded it to my cuck. Your definition of what cuckolding is. I did this because My cuck texted me something that just I am not quite sure how to take. So we shall see.

  12. I totally agree. As a 50yo cuckold, i’ve constantly masturbated to more cuckold porn than even i’d like to admit to, but I don’t think i’d even get hard to pro cuckold porn, its horrible. Like you, I can’t understand why they can’t make good cuck porn, it shouldn’t be that hard. I have always solely seek out only amateur porn to wank to, and when I find the right one, away I go. I must admit though, I love BBC/IR porn, but sometimes it can be just a particular scene with certain heels/mules, her toes curled while climaxing, slutty outfits, seedy hotel rooms, the bull being very well hung, the cuck having a tiny cock etc.

  13. I don’t watch cuck porn. I’ve found it exactly as you said: unfulfilling. Besides that, many seem to get into sissification and that’s just not my thing. I do retweet memes on my twitter account if they hit something inside me. I agree these typically relate more to me than cuck porn.

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